Sex & Indian Mentality

[Hulkster]

Wokays Thinkfloyd...but since i was always thinking kamasutra was some joke used upon indians..i never knew we actually had such stuff

[kb]

Nov

[Shakthiprabha.]

* SEX is not a taboo

* IT is not something to be looked down upon.

* ppl do so many mistakes, have so many wrong attitudes, behaviours, habits, characters like jealousy, spite, vengence, hatred etc..... DO WE TALK BOUT IT?

* Sex IS NOT WRONG

* When 2 ppl who are not blood related, and who belong to the opposite sex, admire, like and love each other, NEXT natural step in a relationship is sex in some cases.

* Sex outside marriage should be and must be avoided when the person is committed.

but...

* If the concerned 2 partners or the triangle dont have problem (and things are done with the consent of all the parties) ITS THEIR LIFE.... why poke our nose there?

* Movie makers are not PREACHERS !

...

[nms]

Been away from our hub for a long time..I have missed some interesting discussions....

Presently I am reading Osho's book - "From Sex To Super Consciousness"
(Kaamathilirundhu Kadavulukku).I would recommend fellow hubbers, atleast unmarried one's to read that book.

My opinions here:

Simply, the divinity in Sex is being lost...What was once thought of a way to enlightenment for the partners has now become a general activity involving different people at a time also... Indulging in sex before or after sex is the person's wish...but if it spoils the health (i mean here physical,mental/emotional/psychological) of self,or any person in the society ( kurippaa children) , then they must give a second thought to their activity.

Vetkam, Naanam ellaam irundha thaan azaghaa irukkum....ellathulayum oru rasanai vaendaamaa..?? summa machine maathiri senjittu pona athula enna thrupthi irukkumnu enakku theriyalai.....namma thamizh ilakkiyathula illadha voodalaa,koodala,kaadhalaa??..but ellathulayum evvalavu inimaya solli irukkaanga..andha inimai ippodhaya western culturela miss aagudhey...

ellorkkum ellamum nalladhaavum,inimayaavum irukkanumgradhukkaaga seidhu vaitha oru sila kattupaadugal dhaan kalaachaaram...kaalapokkil adhan arthangal maranju poi kattupaadugal mattum nikkudhu....enga paathaalum orey hypocritesaa vuruvaakkiruchu...culturai spoil pannudhunnu solra pala paeru cultureless persons....Karpa pathi paesuravarukku paarthaa moonu naalu wifes legalaa irukkaanga (illegalaa pathi kaetka padaathu)...Avaru Kannagiya pathi kooda paesuvaaru. (silai kooda thirandhu vaippaaru...: yaarukkum sollaadhenga ) Karpu rendu inathukkum podhuvaa irukkanum....adhu pengal mattum kadaipidikkanumnu pala aangal ethir paakkuraanga..chauvinists.."Aangor pen karpizhanthaal oru aanum karpai izhakkiraan"nnu Bharathi kooda solli irukkaar.

sila hypocritesa criticize panni pala thiraipadangalla solraanga...."Sindhu Bairavi"..oru paadagar vaazhkaila nadakka koodiya sambavangalnu ..oru kaRpanai kathai..padangalla ellaam morals,lessons,message theda koodaadhu (adhukku nalla puthagangal pala irukku of course nalla thiraipadangalum irukku)...andha character senjadhu sari thappunnu vivaadham thevai illai..andha directorudaya eNNangalukku oru vuruvam,oru vadivam kudukka pattu oru thiraipadamaa varudhu....everything in the movies are not real happenings..its the thoughts of the film maker.. but it doesn't mean that the whole society is thinking similar to the characters of that film...

izhuthuttae poraen..let me conclude precisely:

1.Sex is not a sin;There is a need to change in the perception on sex;Why give a weird meaning to a natural process.?
2.Proper sex education should be given to children & youngsters.
3.Learning from other's experience also, would be a wiser choice rather than learning from one's own experience.
4.Marital Fidelity is common for both the sexes.
5.Conscious Virginity before marriage is really appreciable.

[crazy]

sp akka:
// ITS THEIR LIFE.... why poke our nose there? //


namakkenna, naama namma vaazhkaiya ozhunga vaazhunthu povom

[Shakthiprabha.]

sp akka:
// ITS THEIR LIFE.... why poke our nose there? //


namakkenna, naama namma vaazhkaiya ozhunga vaazhunthu povom

yup. Thats what I SUBSCRIBE TO.

If everybody lives according to their morals and conscinece, THERE IT ENDS.

No business whatsoever to poke their nose on other's matters.

what is right to us would be wrong to them and vice versa.

(I am talkin bout personal matters only, NOT LEGAL MATTERS OR CRIMINAL matters)

[pavalamani pragasam]

nms!

[NOV]

:tq: to all who responded

one last point: I find that 99.95% of parents who have a problem with pre marital sex have never spoken to thier children about sex, leaving the dirty work to others like teachers, friends and inevitably, porn.

So, why blame kids?

[pavalamani pragasam]

The fault today lies 99% on elders/grownups only! All the avarice, consumerism, materialism, extraordinary sensuality! Kids are goaded like race horses to fulfil their parents' inordinate, insatiable, disproportionate dreams & desires. The sins of the parents are truly visited upon the children. With the crap we find around where shall the children find role models---on the screen, in the streets, in disco clubs & drug haunts?

[Selvan]

hypocritesa criticize panni pala thiraipadangalla solraanga...."Sindhu Bairavi"..oru paadagar vaazhkaila nadakka koodiya sambavangalnu ..oru kaRpanai kathai..padangalla ellaam morals,lessons,message theda koodaadhu (adhukku nalla puthagangal pala irukku of course nalla thiraipadangalum irukku)...andha character senjadhu sari thappunnu vivaadham thevai illai..andha directorudaya eNNangalukku oru vuruvam,oru vadivam kudukka pattu oru thiraipadamaa varudhu....everything in the movies are not real happenings..its the thoughts of the film maker.. but it doesn't mean that the whole society is thinking similar to the characters of that film...

good point. it's upto us to avoid such directors. KB is perverted.